The holidays are a time for togetherness, but sometimes distance, illness, or travel make it impossible to visit your loved one in memory care. If you’re facing a season apart, you’re not alone—and your connection still matters.

We’ve previously shared tips for meaningful visits in person (see our Thanksgiving in Memory Care guide), but what if you can’t be there physically? Here’s how you can still make your loved one feel remembered, valued, and loved—no matter where you are.

Why Connection Still Matters—Even from Afar

Staying emotionally connected boosts well-being for both residents and families. At GCMC, we know that love, comfort, and a sense of belonging can travel any distance. Our team is here to help you bridge the gap and keep relationships strong, even when you can’t be in the same room.

Creative Ways to Stay Connected

Video Calls & Virtual Gatherings:

• Schedule FaceTime or Zoom calls with help from GCMC staff

• Make virtual visits special: show off your tree, sing a holiday song, or include grandkids and pets on screen

Personalized Care Packages:

• Send favorite snacks, cozy socks, family photos, or a handwritten letter

• Include sensory items (lavender sachets, soft blankets, holiday cards)

• Ask GCMC for safe delivery instructions

Letters & Holiday Cards:

• Handwritten notes or cards are treasured keepsakes

• Invite friends and family to send cards—mail call can be a highlight of the week

Recorded Messages & Family Videos:

• Short video greetings, family updates, or memory slideshows

• GCMC staff can help play these for your loved one

Shared Activities from Afar:

• Watch the same holiday movie, listen to favorite music, or “do” a craft together (even if apart)

• Send a simple activity kit or playlist for your loved one to enjoy

Staff-Facilitated Connections:

• GCMC team members are happy to read your messages aloud, share photos, or assist with calls—just let us know what you need

GCMC’s Support for Remote Family Connections

We’re committed to helping families stay close, no matter the distance. Our staff can:

• Schedule and facilitate video calls

• Safely deliver packages and cards

• Play your recorded messages or videos

• Provide updates and photos upon request

If you need help making a connection, just reach out—we’re here to support you.

When You Feel Far Away—Coping with Holiday Guilt & Sadness

It’s normal to feel guilty or sad about missing in-person time, especially during the holidays. Remember: your love and care shine through every call, card, and thoughtful gesture. If you’re struggling, connect with GCMC staff or support resources like the Alzheimer’s Association—you’re not alone.

Related Reading

For tips on in-person visits, check out our Thanksgiving in Memory Care guide.

Key Takeaways

• Connection matters, even from a distance

• Small gestures—a call, a card, a favorite treat—can brighten your loved one’s day

• GCMC is here to help families stay close, however possible

FAQ

Q: Can I send gifts or packages to my loved one at GCMC?

A: Yes! Please contact our team, (239) 427-1455, for safe delivery instructions and any guidelines.

Q: How do I schedule a virtual visit?

A: Call or email our front desk to set up a FaceTime or Zoom call—our staff will assist with the technology. (239) 427-1455 or @[email protected]

Q: What if my loved one doesn’t recognize me on video calls?

A: That’s okay—focus on sharing a smile or a song. The sound of your voice and your presence still provide comfort.

Q: How can I include kids or grandkids in remote connections?

A: Have them draw a picture, record a message, or join a video call. Simple gestures mean so much.

Q: Who can I contact at GCMC for help?

A: Reach out to our main office at Contact Us or call (239) 427-1455.

If you need help connecting with your loved one, or want to share your own creative ideas, please contact us. We’re here to help you stay close—no matter the miles.